First rebellious phase
This year, as soon as a child going to elementary school told me once, it came to lose something to say at once.
I understand things to a certain extent, I go to a nursery school and exchange information with other children, so it is natural.
It was effective until now
"A ghost will come."
And
"Black Santa has gifts."
Is the trump card soon going to be soon?
Generally it is said that the first rebellious period will come around 9 years old.
It is because I have doubts about absolute authority. But this rebellious period is not a desire to escape authority but a feeling of desire to keep authority.
Even though teachers and parents are saying great things, these ideas come about by sometimes seeing wrong things.
If so, we should be pleased with this rebellious period that the eyes that see reality grow among children.
Those who continue accepting themselves, even if they see the wrong things by their teachers and parents, will say that the ability to see themselves is not being cultivated.
second child’s Understanding
Mom is always amazed at what the second-year-old child speaks.
"Daddy killer."
After saying
Sorry to say "I do not want to do a little while ago."
And say,
At the Christmas presentation,
"○ ○ was the cutest and the best."
Praise it, laughing happyly
"But Mr. XX chan does not think that XX chan was the most cute?"
And return it.
Certainly it is well understood from the age of 2 years old.
This is consolidated into being the second child.
Everything is first time for the first child, parents are sensitive to all the actions taken by the child. As a child grows by looking at it, it grows to match the reaction of parents.
But the second child, because parents are watching the growth process of the first child, doing the same will not result in the same reaction as it is known.
We are also looking closely at the parent's response to what the first child can do with the current age.
Then the second child will inevitably want to draw out a better response from the parent, and will start to act slowly.
That might be fine.
But sometimes I think that this child is born first.
It is natural that a child who was born earlier is given a time of affection, but the magnitude of affection is the same between the first child and the second child.
It is around this time that we try to respond by scratching the memory of the first child every time so that the second child does not have to do so much.
second child’s Understanding
Mom is always amazed at what the second-year-old child speaks.
"Daddy killer."
After saying
Sorry to say "I do not want to do a little while ago."
And say,
At the Christmas presentation,
"○ ○ was the cutest and the best."
Praise it, laughing happyly
"But Mr. XX chan does not think that XX chan was the most cute?"
And return it.
Certainly it is well understood from the age of 2 years old.
This is consolidated into being the second child.
Everything is first time for the first child, parents are sensitive to all the actions taken by the child. As a child grows by looking at it, it grows to match the reaction of parents.
But the second child, because parents are watching the growth process of the first child, doing the same will not result in the same reaction as it is known.
We are also looking closely at the parent's response to what the first child can do with the current age.
Then the second child will inevitably want to draw out a better response from the parent, and will start to act slowly.
That might be fine.
But sometimes I think that this child is born first.
It is natural that a child who was born earlier is given a time of affection, but the magnitude of affection is the same between the first child and the second child.
It is around this time that we try to respond by scratching the memory of the first child every time so that the second child does not have to do so much.
Does memorization make sense?
A 6 year old child now remembers proverbs and haiku at a great pace.
Moreover, it memorizes the exactly nearly exactly 50 items in the nursery school without mistaking the proverb and haiku order.
If you remember, you can get a Hanko from your teacher.
But the meaning is not known at all.
It is commonplace to remember if children remember them.
Is there any meaning to merely memorizing?
It is not difficult for me to remember now, I guess he is doing it with a sense of game that gets a Hanko game.
However, originally, the background is important regardless of proverbs or haiku.
Why did the proverbs were born, how did one tea haiku poem?
If you teach it, you should talk about it.
A while ago, I tried to let children do kanji learning notes at home, but I stopped because I felt forcibly remembered.
Now I am drawing a picture and I explain that this picture became this kanji, but the child nods happily looking at the picture I painted.
Because the dog is sleeping next to the person sleeping in the large character, it is said that a kanji called a dog was made.
After parenting
How old can a person live?
If it is about the average of Japanese, it will be about 85 years old, but there is no guarantee that individuals can live to that age.
On the other hand, it takes 21 years for parents to bring up their children to a single adult.
Meanwhile, parents are full of concerns at child rearing.
I have to change diapers only when I am busy,
I started crying in the public place and did not stop,
Sudden illness in the middle of the night,
I was injured by my friends,
To resist the parents,
There are problems in school relations,
There are exams,
There was employment.
However, the more serious thing is after child rearing is over.
During child rearing, at least it has the point of contact with parents, so although it is hard it is possible to try somehow.
However, after becoming an adult, you must be self-reliant and depart from your parents and take responsibility for all your actions.
Whether you can really live 64 years after age 22 you have to live with your own power depends on education for 21 years of child rearing.
Of course, studying variously after 21 years of age also matures immature ideas, but still judges things with his own mind which has been accumulated until that point, so it is important to base ideas If you have strain, you will step on the road at something.
For example, if we are educated that gold is all, we will try to make money in the gray zone by becoming an idea that we can do whatever we do not even do the law even if we are educated.
For example, if people are all educated that they are equal, children in poor countries will launch a project to have hope.
It is impossible to predict the various events falling into the future for the child so it is necessary to develop a mind and body that can deal with various situations in just 21 years.
And, when that child becomes a parent, his / her child further takes over his / her thoughts.
In this way the mind that parents inherit to their children will be connected forever.
That's why parenting is a wonderful thing that is more challenging than anything else.
