Order of growth
When my child is 5 years old, the nursery school teacher briefly to the children
"Judge it by yourself"
She was teaching.
As it became possible to understand things to some extent, and my preference comes out in various ways,
I tried to judge various things since I was a child and tried to develop judgment.
It is a clear mistake.
It is a mistake to seek thought before a will or emotion grows up.
There was something I did not tell the teacher when a problem actually occurred in the nursery school.
Asking him what did not tell the teacher why,
"Because you will be told to judge it by yourself."
He answered.
Since the mind is invisible, it is an illusion that if you start early you will soon get acquainted.
When the power of thought is required when imitating by making imitation, intention and emotion will not grow properly.
For example, it is easy to understand.
What happens when a 6 year old child performs a body building.
The muscles are tremendously attached, even if bones are disturbed by muscles and try to grow, they can not be done.
In other words, there is a turn in the growth of the heart as well as training the body according to the growth of the body.
Where the child had the most fun
Hawaii, New Caledonia, Guam, Okinawa, Izu, Naeba, Yatsugatake · · ·
I have been to travel with my child.
Disney Resort, Sci-Fi Sentai Show, Oiso Long Beach, Hero Movie, Strawberry Hunting, Grape Picking · · ·
I have been to play with my kids.
However, the place I liked most about my child was Kawaguchiko.
It is never true that there is a place where kids will be delighted by Kawaguchi Lake.
Talking about what we did there, at the Music Box Museum called the forest of music box
I just made such a wooden box music box.
It was a collaboration that I painted the edge of a picture and a child painted inside of it.
This experience remained intact as it was, as the music box became the best treasure, Kawaguchiko became the most memorable.
However, if you go with a child somewhere, it will not be a memorable experience.
It is very important to let parents experience what they think is happy to be able to do with their children now.
So, as long as the child gets bigger you will definitely see something fun from Kawaguchiko. Still it is fun to write pictures and it can not be easy now that you can not pass through Lake Kawaguchi easily.
Mama plans various things to take us to a fun place than Lake Kawaguchi every month, but Hawaii, Naeba and Disneyland can not win Kawaguchiko, recently it is completely battey and beat Kawaguchi Lake I almost give up.
Doing things you do not have to do
A short while ago, Hollywood actress Charlize Theron from South Africa was awarded at $ 140,000 (13 million yen), with the right to kiss at a charity auction called OneXOne. Is 13 million yen higher or cheap for a kiss of Charlize Theron? Of course, the person who made a successful bid judged it to be worth it, but the celebrity big actress holding an Oscar in "Monster" does not know who will win a bid The only thing you did not need to kiss auction, doing it clearly.
So why are you going to get here?
Charlize · Theron is considerably struggling, such as being killed by the real mother when he is a child. That is why it is here for the poor children of their home country, which is the purpose of this charity.
When I saw this news, I remember that the Chilean prostitute had the right to spend 27 hours with myself in the charity auction. This auction was also for children with disabilities in their own country.
Because prostitution is legal in Chile, it is possible that such an exhibition became possible, but from inferring that prostitution is working, she probably was not so wealthy and needed money as well.
Even if she is Charlize Theron, she is dare to do not put on her own precious things, despite the difference of rich and poor. This strong, beautiful and gentle feelings will stay only because you understand people's pain.
It is fine to do things properly when you have to do it, but I think that it is the time to find real human value in dare to do something you do not have to do.
Why do kids cry even though I know
The morning of a house with small children is terrible.
There are also many fussies that it is just to go out, eating rice, brushing teeth, changing clothes as well.
When the child was about 3 years old, I love Disney's Cars and I was watching every single cars everyday.
If you have time, Cars, Cars.
There was a time when I saw Cars until I went to the nursery school if time passed in the morning.
Every morning my mum took the child to the nursery school, but as I got out in the morning the movie was obviously long so I could not see it all,
"Well, it's time to go."
And stop the DVD.
There is a fuss about it.
It makes me crying or getting rude.
Then Mama will be in a more serious condition, the inside of the house will become a battlefield.
Mama always wins at the end,
"You should have said yesterday! If you cry like that, you will never show it anymore! If you cry tomorrow I will never show you next time! Remember, crying will not show you tomorrow either!"
And in fact it was held down with a more scary tone, and the child was struggling to cry inevitably while trembling.
When I talked with my mother later,
"I know that I will go to a nursery school, why are you always crying, why do you want to go to a nursery school? If you talk to a nursery school teacher, you said," It may be better to stop showing you in the morning. "I wonder if I should quit it at all. There is no learning effect. "
He said.
It is mama who does not understand.
There are "meaning memory" and "episodic memory" in the human brain.
"I am a human," this is a memory of meaning.
"When the time comes, I will go to nursery school", this is episodic memory.
Child has short episode memory time.
Moreover, as capacity is narrow, two things can not be considered at the same time.
If you are watching Cars at the time you go to nursery school, you can only think of your favorite cars.
It is natural that you cry because you disturbed what you like.
There is no reason to think that we have to go to a nursery school there.
Therefore, it makes me very angry to get angry at such a thing.
It is equivalent to denying the work of the human brain.
After that my departure hours changed due to the circumstances of my company, the role of taking children to the nursery school changed to me in the morning.
Of course, in the morning, before I went to nursery school, I showed my favorite cars. And when time came and I stopped the DVD, the child cried like usual but as I saw that kind of thing, I am very pleased that the brain has not grown so far.
Even so to say, I have to take him to a nursery school.
However, it is also a child's brain. It is not such a difficult story.
It is only a matter of switching interests from car to another.
I am crying because I was disturbed by Cars, but as soon as I showed different subjects of interest, I stop crying and laugh.
I enjoyed the interaction for a while, but it is somewhat lonely somewhat I missed crying even if I started growing and stopping the DVD.
This book is good for the story of the heart here. Although it is not a child-raising book by Professor Marvin Minsky called father of artificial intelligence, trying to understand the mechanism of the mind is very positive for child rearing.
Child's motivation
There are two things that I could do after my birth, though I could not do them until a child was born
It is cooking and piano.
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Although it can not be done any more.
Cooking has to be made when mom gets late,
The piano needs to understand the contents to a certain extent when a child practices every day, and it is possible to do piano only a little because I try to do an assignment song by myself.
Actually, these were things I wanted to do from a long time ago, but until that time I had no chance or motivation.
It is harder than I thought, but on the other hand, if I think that it would have been impossible to taste the whole life unless I tried it, I am grateful to my child.
Both of them are so deep that if you continue, you will hit the wall immediately, but one point that you want to see the child's happy face motivates and you can continue enjoying.
If so, when people try to do something, they are aggregated into how high motivation can be maintained.
It is my heart to want papa and mama to be praised for children to paint, sing songs and work.
Of course, when the child came to show it with his eyes shining, I will praise it exactly.
And there is only one way to increase that child's motivation.
Children will love dads and moms much more.
Always keep in mind that children will love you more and always communicate.
That believes that when children are happy, it will lead to sharing feelings even when they are suffering.
I try hard in order to be praised by a favorite person, it may be a motivation that does not change even when I become an adult.
